Yes, many guys on there are married and older. Daddies. But they are real. Just discreet. No faces. Don't use it as a forum to chat, and don't use it to post your details in the subject line. Click on a profile three times to show the guy you are interested. Send your details in the body of an email. Not the subject. Never post details publicly. You will be fine. Play the game. Lots of profiles have genital pics which can be funny. Yes, not all good looking young guys or women. What do you think, models are just sitting there willing to jump into bed with you?
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